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: This disappeared from my Gallery. DA Tech is looking into it.This is a very basic look at Intimacy, a visual way of seeing the levels of intimacy, barriers to intimacy, and the non-physical and non-sexual forms of intimacy.
Obviously the barriers to intimacy are extensive, but perhaps presented this way, they may not seem so daunting.
There is a real beauty to simple intimacy. Touching him, his smell, his taste, and when you love him you want it all, you want to experience all of him.
The act of sex, intercourse, is simply the culmination, the end of a journey. What I think people loose track of is the beauty of the journey getting there. It is like the only important thing in the sex act at the very end. But the very most important part is the intimacy before the climax.
If your partner is unable to orgasm, for any number of possible reasons, such as an accident paralyses him, surgery on his prostate makes him impotent, diabetes, surgical accidents, and so forth, the greater majority of the loving intimacy is still possible.
Men are especially in a rush to get to the end, often leaving women and romantic gay men in the lurch. With so much focus placed on orgasm and intercourse, too many couples loose out on a lot of other intimacy, including non-sexual, and non-physical intimacy.